Lord, We Believe; Help Our Unbelief
In the wake of a second hailstorm, our pumpkin patch was seemingly obliterated. The rest of the gardens rebounded fairly quickly, and the work of watering, weeding, and participating in local farmers' markets continued unabated. Dan's intention was to pull out the pumpkin plants as soon as time allowed. Days quickly melted into weeks, and before we knew it, those plants had grown large and lush again, their tattered leaves hidden beneath new growth.
"They won't produce anything," Dan told me, understanding the unspoken hope I was feeling as we walked through the gardens one evening. "The hail took out the blossoms," he explained. "There won't be time enough for them to make new ones and bear fruit before winter."
The plants continued to grow, easily reaching four feet tall, with massive leaves. Our barren pumpkin patch soon became the talk of the neighborhood, with passers by stopping regularly to comment on it's beauty. We decided to leave the plants, whose unusually large size we attributed to their lack of fruit. All of their energy was directed into growing leaves. We could enjoy the beauty even without the promise of a harvest.
The patch became a favorite hiding place for the younger kids, who could easily disappear beneath the monstrous plants. It was sometime in early August when one of the children first reported finding a "baby pumpkin." Soon it was like a daily egg hunt, with all of the kids wading as far as they could into the jungle of twisting vines to look for more. "There's at least a dozen good-sized pumpkins out there," our eldest son reported. "We'll at least have enough to decorate for fall."
Mildly surprised, Dan was clearly pleased that we would have something, however small, to show for our labors. The kids and I love all things autumn, and setting up displays of straw bales, cornstalks, pumpkins, and gourds has become an eagerly anticipated annual tradition, second only to finding and cutting our Christmas trees.
Deeper into the Valley
The busyness of fall soon overtook that of summer, and the kids and I focused our attention on harvesting and preserving produce and getting ready for the new school year. I had accepted a position teaching middle school humanities once a week at a local hybrid school, so my mind was even more occupied than my hands. It was stressful.
In the midst of all of the other things going on in our life, Dan and I were also into our second year of defending ourselves against a lawsuit brought against us due to the ineptitude and/or dishonesty of our former insurance agents and brokers in California. Without the protection of the liability insurance policy for which we had paid for nearly three years, we found ourselves paying out-of-pocket for our legal defense. We had a five-figure bill due at the end of September that amounted to nearly half of Dan's annual income from his regular job. Yes, it was unbelievably stressful.
September 10, the day before the first day of classes, Dan gave me a somber heads-up. A hard frost was in the forecast for the week, with temperatures dropping into the 20s. Almost apologetically, he told me that I would have only two days to harvest most of the garden if I didn't want to lose it. It was hard not to be discouraged as my well-laid plans for a smooth, pleasant first week of school went out the door.
September 11, the first day of school, after having gotten a solid two or three hours of sleep, went by in a blur of caffeine and adrenaline. By the time the kids and I got home, around 6:00 pm, we were ready to drop.
September 12, the first day of formal teaching at home was off to a rocky start. In order to pay our attorney, we had grimly accepted the necessity of taking out a loan against our home. The appraiser was due to arrive mid-morning, and I was flying about in a panic trying to restore some sense of order and cleanliness to the house. The kids were doing their best to tackle their assignments without much help from me. The appraiser arrived around 10:30, and I spent about an hour walking in through the house and around the property.
At some point while I was outside, Abbi came out and told me that our little Rose (11) wasn't feeling well and had a terrible headache. I told her to give Rose some ibuprofen and have her lie down in my room until I could come inside. When the appraiser finally left, my heart heavy with the reality of financial toll the lawsuit was having on our lives, I headed back to the house.
I had just stepped onto the front porch when Abbi, flung open the door and said, with great urgency, "Mom, Rose needs you right now. Something is really wrong with her."
I found Rose lying on my bed, her arms and legs oddly contorted, quietly moaning and clearly agitated. In that moment, every other concern in my life disappeared.
Praying silently, I began to assess her condition. I attempted to reposition her limbs for comfort, and placed a damp cloth on her head. "Mama, I'm scared," she whispered.
I began to ask her about her symptoms, what hurt and where. As she struggled to find words, I saw the fingers of her right hand tightly contract, her forearm eventually drawing up against her little body, stiff and slightly contorted. Stroking her slender fingers, willing them to relax, I continued to ask her questions. Her words came haltingly, then became garbled and disordered. Her eyes widened in fear as she heard herself.
"That's not what you meant to say, was it?" I said, struggling to remain composed. She shook her head, tears slipping from the outer corners of her eyes.
Then the right side of her face went slack, her eyelid drooping and the corner of her mouth visibly turning downward.
"Smile for me, Rosie," I whispered. With great effort, the left side of her mouth turned upward.
"Sweetheart," I whispered again, "Please don't be scared, but I need to call for help."
Tears now flowing, her face ever more contorting, Rose managed to say, "Mama, pray." And I did.
And so, within twenty minutes of the appraiser leaving, emergency responders were in my room, an ambulance in my driveway, and a life-flight helicopter in the field next to the pumpkin patch. And nothing else mattered anymore.
After a few hours in the ER, and four more stroke-like episodes, each worse than the ones before, a small dose of a major opioid finally brought relief. Rose was eventually diagnosed with complex migraines, which in rare cases, can present with stroke-like symptoms. And while much about such migraines is unknown, and they often hit without warning, they are often precipitated by periods of stress, anxiety, lack of sleep, and chronic dehydration. It was a major wake-up call.
Our life was out of balance and Rosie was our barometer.
Nearer and Nearer Still
Out of balance or not, our life is our life, and it just keeps going on. As much as I wanted to quit everything that day, I couldn't. I had classes to teach. I had my own children to educate, to feed, and to nurture, a home to manage, a husband to love and help. And lawyers to pay.
The reality of the coming frost did not change, and all of the kids, including Rose, were determined that we save as much as possible. And so, on Wednesday, September 13, we pulled in everything we could from our really big, little garden, everything that the coming frost would damage. When we awoke on Thursday morning, reluctantly emerging from our cozy beds, we looked out to see a crystalline shimmer on the world outside.
The pumpkin patch was nearly surreal, with each massive leaf glittering with the facets of a thousand diamonds. Once the beams of the morning sun crested the nearby mountains, we knew that the final, crowning glory of our pumpkin plants would quickly wilt into shapeless masses of rotting, soggy leaves. We oohed and aahed for as long as we could stand outside before heading off to begin our day.
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Sunday, February 26, 2017
The Really Big Little Garden, part 3
The Backstory
After several years of raising produce to sell at local farmers' markets, in 2014 we decided to try out a different business model: the CSA.
CSA stands for Community Supported Agriculture, and is an increasingly popular means for creating a financially sustainable, highly efficient, farm-to-table relationship between growers and consumers. Individuals or families buy "shares" in a farm's produce before the growing season begins. This entitles them to a certain amount of each week's harvest throughout the season, usually 20-22 weeks.
It also allowed us to reduce waste. Market demand doesn't always match up well with crop production. It's never a good thing to have a bumper crop of green beans when shoppers are more interested in tomatoes. With the CSA model, our surplus became our shareholders', allowing them to have extra to give to friends and family, or even to try their hands at canning or freezing.
From a financial perspective, the CSA model provided income for us during the time of year when expenses are highest and revenue lowest: late winter and early spring.
By the summer of 2015, our shareholders had quadrupled. By the fall of 2015, we realized that running a CSA was not a sustainable proposition for our family. We were at the point where we could easily double our shares again, but not without hiring outside help. Up to this point, it was just us and our kids. And we were tired.

Our Story Continues
That brings us to 2016 and the pumpkin patch. This one crop promised to fill much of what we gave up in closing the CSA.
The weather had been unusually warm and dry since March, seemingly skipping right over spring into summer. So it was with cautious optimism that we moved forward with our planting. The gardens were in and growing beautifully by June, thriving in the unseasonably warm temperatures.
The pumpkin plants were doing exceptionally well, and we took great delight in looking out on the vast patch, dreaming of the bountiful fall harvest it would produce.
It was June 8, our eldest son's 16th birthday. Temperatures had dropped slightly from the few days prior, from the 90's into the high 80's. The afternoon air was hot and still. Suddenly, a strong, cool breeze began to blow from the west. From inside the house, we could hear it rushing through the trees, breaking the heavy silence.
Then the first hailstones began to fall, pinging, thumping, and cracking in a frenzied percussion off roof and rock and table and tree. As the few rapidly became many, my brain finally engaged: I had to get the cars under cover.
Throwing a Carhartt coat over my head, I ran outside. Though my car was fewer than twenty feet from the door, I felt the stinging impact of dozens of large hailstones pelting down upon me.
As I pulled my car under cover of the large evergreen closest to the house, Dan came running from the back yard with the same intent, quickly parking his truck under a stand of smaller trees at the far end of the house.
As I pulled my car under cover of the large evergreen closest to the house, Dan came running from the back yard with the same intent, quickly parking his truck under a stand of smaller trees at the far end of the house.
We raced back to the shelter of the front porch. Breathlessly, we watched as our yard and gardens were covered in a solid layer of hailstones.
It was one of the children who first verbalized the thought racing through my own mind, "What about the pumpkin plants?"
From where we stood, we could see the east end of the patch, buried in an unbroken field of icy white.
I was fighting tears. What could I say? I didn't even know what to tell myself. Then these words came. Choking down a sob, I uttered the only words that made sense. "The Lord gives. The Lord takes away. Blessed be the name of the Lord."

I have come to believe that farming is an exercise in faith made visible. We can provide the right conditions. We can follow calendars and guides. We can water, and weed, and fertilize. But what we cannot do is actually MAKE something grow. That, alone, is God's responsibility. And we cannot control the weather. That is God's domain. Crops that take months to come to maturity can be wiped out in a matter of minutes.
What can we do in the face of such losses? We can do no more, nor do no less than what we do in the face of great gain. We give thanks to God for His mercy and goodness. Even this storm, I assured my children (and myself) was part of God's sovereign plan. We didn't have to understand it, or even enjoy it; we merely had to accept it and trust in the One who allowed it.
The hail stopped almost as quickly as it began. Within minutes, the sun was out, rapidly melting away the chunks of ice that littered the yard.
Miraculously, the leaves of the pumpkin plants somehow escaped severe damage from the hail, even as the large maple trees in the center of our yard were nearly stripped of their new foliage. In the weeks following the storm, the plants continued to grow at an amazing rate, their leaves becoming large and lush.
Then, on July 16, a second hailstorm hit. Again, we huddled on the porch, our ears ringing with the roar of thousands of large hailstones pounding on the roof. The girls wept. Dan looked on, ever so slightly shaking his head in silent dissent.
When it was over, one of the kids asked, "Dad, what do we do about the pumpkin patch?"
"There's nothing we can do," he replied. "It's gone. We just have to move on."
As I watched him walk across the yard to begin surveying the damage, I knew that his heart felt the same burden as mine: losing those pumpkins meant losing money that we desperately needed.
But even as my mind began spinning with all that this was likely to mean for us in the coming months, again these words came to my mind.
"The Lord gives. The Lord takes away. Blessed be the name of the Lord."
"Dad's right," I said, as started after him across the yard. "We just have to keep moving forward. We can only do what we can do. God will do the rest."
Together, the kids and I walked to the pumpkin patch. The huge plants, that had just minutes before been so vibrant and healthy, now lay nearly flattened, leaves shredded and stalks crushed.
Then, on July 16, a second hailstorm hit. Again, we huddled on the porch, our ears ringing with the roar of thousands of large hailstones pounding on the roof. The girls wept. Dan looked on, ever so slightly shaking his head in silent dissent.
When it was over, one of the kids asked, "Dad, what do we do about the pumpkin patch?"
"There's nothing we can do," he replied. "It's gone. We just have to move on."
As I watched him walk across the yard to begin surveying the damage, I knew that his heart felt the same burden as mine: losing those pumpkins meant losing money that we desperately needed.
"The Lord gives. The Lord takes away. Blessed be the name of the Lord."
"Dad's right," I said, as started after him across the yard. "We just have to keep moving forward. We can only do what we can do. God will do the rest."
Together, the kids and I walked to the pumpkin patch. The huge plants, that had just minutes before been so vibrant and healthy, now lay nearly flattened, leaves shredded and stalks crushed.
Thursday, February 23, 2017
The Really Big Little Garden, Part 2
I began to have my doubts about our "little garden" the moment this pulled into the yard. Grandpa upgraded his small, blue Ford tractor to this great, red beast. There were few complaints from Dan and Henry though, and the ground was tilled in a matter of minutes.
Having started nearly all of our veggies eight weeks earlier in the greenhouse, putting in the garden was an exercise in (near) instant gratification. It took just an hour or two one afternoon to set out the majority of the plants.
Since we had room, and it was just for us, I decided to try a few new crops. The biggest surprise, by far, was celery. For some reason, I had it in my mind that celery was one of those plants that preferred long, hot seasons, growing best in places like Texas and Southern California.
I was able to cut what I needed from the plants all through the summer and fall. And when it was time to plow the garden under, I simply cut off all the remaining stalks, washed them, cut them up, and put them in freezer bags. Easiest preserving I have ever done! All winter long, whenever I made soups or stews, I just scooped out what I needed from the freezer.
I finished the last of the celery a couple of weeks ago, and that last serving was as flavorful as the first. This year I will double the amount that I freeze. It's that good!
Even as we were setting out the plants last spring, we talked eagerly about what were most excited to harvest and eat. We laughed at the fact that all of this talk was making us hungry. There is no doubt that our kids enjoy living an authentic "farm-to-table" lifestyle.
As we wrapped up the planting that evening, looking with satisfaction on the work accomplished, we imagined the weeks ahead to be ones of relative luxury, with only the daily watering and occasional weeding to do. It was shaping up to be the best year yet.
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